SEX

(That incredible pleasurable act)

Say it LOUD and feel how the blood boils inside your veins, the muscles tightens up like that of a lion prepared to pound on its prey, you start to sweat underneath your garment, everything becomes unreal to you and all that matters at that time is the quenching of your libido

YES! I know right now, we are all prepared to know what this write up entails because the topic of SEX is one that fascinates us a lot.

SEX – that incredible pleasurable act that drives two individuals of the opposite sex to explore the privacy of each other intimately, has been one of the main reason behind all the evils that has engulfed earth.

SEX in the divine estimation is an act that is highly rewarding if it is done within the boundary of Marital Love – Yes! You read right…Within the boundary of Marital Love.

But it’s so unfortunate in the world we live in today, that the experimentation of this act is carried out, outside marriage and it’s being celebrated as though it’s not a big deal.

The most outrageous thing about this act is that teens who shouldn’t have a clue of what SEX means are the ones who are into it the most.

And among themselves, they see the one who has never had a taste of it before as a dummy or an idiot who doesn’t know how to enjoy life.

And the poor innocent fellow who has been taunted by his friends of not being exposed also becomes anxious of having his first experience of SEX.

It reminds me of a post I read sometimes ago on facebook about a mother who engaged her son in a conversation. She asked him; Son! Let’s discuss about SEX. She said this with the mindset that she wants to educate him on the topic of SEX.

And in response, the boy replied: What would you love to know about SEX mum? The mother fainted upon hearing the boy’s response.

As crazy and funny as it sounds, it’s real. Folks who are yet to become of age are those who are most obsessed with SEX.

They do it and they take pride in it. They engage themselves in courtship, deceiving one another to be lovers just for the purpose of sexual exploitation.

This indiscipline act has brought about bastards (born out of wedlock) roaming around the streets and making mischief everywhere.

It has also been the main reason why so many scary diseases with awkward names have engulfed the world at large, some of which have no cure till date.

The cheap immodest girl who is being pursued around loses her most precious asset on the lap of an irresponsible cheat who will end up narrating how she was sounding under him to his friends.

Despite all these ugly diseases occasioned by illicit SEX rampant within the society, folks are yet attracted to SEX because of the unequaled 5 minutes pleasure derived from it.

At that point when man nurtures the thought of SEX in his mind, nothing matters anymore, even ALLAH and the words of the Quran becomes unreal to us at that point.

It doesn’t matter if you are someone of high class, or a Sheikh or Pastor, when it comes to the incredible pleasure of SEX, the bubble will definitely burst. It therefore becomes a pay day someday.

Hey there! Listen…No one is exempted from this act because it’s an inherent nature of man. Even if you try to curb it, those hormones will definitely query you.

Don’t get me wrong – I’m not saying you should be cruel against your sexual instincts, but you need to realize that it is only quenchable within the boundary of Marital Love.

When SEX is done within Marital Love, the partners tend to absorb the best in each other. With time, they will start to talk alike and do things in a similar way. But in strife, they absorb the worst from each other.

We need to realize that any SEX experience that is outside marriage becomes a sacrilegious SIN. No amount of argument can make it right.

The reason for our indiscipline approach toward this sacrilegious sin is because of all the vices we are exposed to, some of which include; watching of exotic movies, reading romantic novel, seclusion with the opposite sex and constantly staring at ladies of easy virtues. ETC

All of these have formed up to be the main reason behind our obsession towards sex. The moment we engage in any of them, our sexual instinct becomes awaken and it takes only the divine grace for us  to have control over it.

It is no wonder why Allah used a tactical approach in prohibiting such mighty sin as SEX (outside marriage) in His following words;

“DON’T MOVE NEAR FORNICATION” (sex outside marriage)

 He could have simply said, don’t commit fornication – rather, he said don’t move near anything that will warrant you to commit fornication. It’s amazing how Allah speaks.

The crazy thing about this act is “once tasted is forever thirsty”. You will always yearn to have more. 

Your spouse won’t even satisfy you anymore – you just want to have a taste of every opposite SEX you meet.

So, as a preventive measure, Allah commanded that “WE SHOULD LOWER GAZE”.

And if you fear that you don’t have control over your libido, then the Holy Prophet Muhammed (SAW) advised that we should get married and derive the pleasure from our legitimate spouse.

If you don’t have marriage disposal at hand, it is highly encourage that you FAST because that will ensure self discipline and temporary abstinence within you.

So, you see you don’t have an excuse. After all these preventive measure, and still you don’t feel like giving up this act, then you become a “A SLAVE OF YOUR OWN DESIRE”.

The crazy thought of SEX is so powerful that it can make man go to any extent just to quench his unquenchable thirst. That is why you would always find cases of a 40 years old man raped a girl of 12 years old.

I mean, what pleasure is there to derive from such infant – That is how crazy the thought of SEX can lead a person to commit a devastating act. And I will drop MY PEN here.

SANNI WAHAB OLANREWAJU